Can this marriage be saved? Help a SCORE brother out.

September 1, 2010 by Elliot James
S.P.'s wife admires Morgan.

S.P.'s wife admires Morgan.

Jayden's a reader's wife. Nice if you can get it.

Jayden's a reader's wife. Nice if you can get one.

S.P. writes to “Scorecard” with a problem and needs advice. It’s a real- life dilemma. Send in your thoughts about his situation. Help a brother out.

“I am writing this because I would like my fellow SCORE readers to help me with a question that is of utmost importance in my life right now. Please bear with me because you have to hear my entire story before you can render an informed judgment. I am 34 years old. My wife of three years is 32, and she is very beautiful in just about every way. I say just about every way because most SCORE Men would agree that her breasts are too small. They’re only C-cups, but they’re beautifully shaped with nipples that I love to suck on. Until Debbie, all my girlfriends had big tits. You see, I had been a SCORE reader since I was 19 years old, and I never even looked at a girl unless she was stacked, maybe not in a SCORE way but definitely stacked compared to most other girls. Unfortunately, every single one of my prior relationships ended disastrously, either because the girl cheated on me (as we all know, girls with big boobs attract a lot of suitors) or because we were mismatched personality-wise.

“When I met Debbie, I liked her, but my first reaction was, ‘Her breasts are too small.’ But then I said to myself, ‘Steve, you’ve always judged women by their cup-size, and you’ve always been wrong. Maybe it’s time for you to try something different.’ Well, I did, and it worked out great. Even the sex is great, and I’ve learned to love her (comparatively) small breasts. Everything was going great until about three months ago, when my wife happened upon my secret stash of SCORE magazines. As you can imagine, she was very upset, but what upset her most wasn’t that I was looking at naked women in a porn magazine. She was upset that I was looking at naked women who she didn’t measure up to in the breast department.

“Just about every day since then, she’s asked me, ‘Are you sure you like my body?’ or ‘Wouldn’t you like me better if I had big breasts?’ and I always have to reassure her that her body is find the way it is and I wouldn’t want to change a thing. Over the past month, however, she’s been dropping hints about wanting to get a boob job, and not just bigger boobs. Massive, SCORE-sized boobs. She says her role model is Morgan Leigh (my wife is very slim, too), and she wants to look like her. I would love for my wife to have boobs like Morgan Leigh’s, but I don’t want her to think I’ve been disappointed all this time. I haven’t been. I just didn’t think I had a choice in the matter. On the other hand, I’m worried that if my wife gets bigger breasts, she won’t want me anymore and our relationship will turn out like all the other ones in my life. What would you do, fellow SCORE Men? I need your help.”

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21 responses to “Can this marriage be saved? Help a SCORE brother out.”

  1. MRPEMSTAR says:

    Well Steve, Debbie doesn’t deserve you. There are enough divorces in this country already, mark yours up for one more. Superficial about BOOB SIZE? C’mon man, why did you marry her in the first place, what you got her knocked up and her daddy had a shotgun? For cry’in out loud. Be a man and admit to your mistake and MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE!

  2. JR says:

    I suspect your wife hopes you’ll give up your “stash” if she super-sizes her rack in order to get your sole attention. If this is the case – and you’re willing to do so – fine. If not, buying her a set of funbags may be a waste of money.

    Your wife, though attractive in her own right, may simply feel inadequate in comparison to SCORE’s loaded lovelies. Absent a boob-job, reassuring her will be a constant, ongoing effort.

    You must be totally honest with each other and you both must have realistic expectations. I don’t know of many women who “go huge” for reasons other than entering the men’s entertainment business. One exception is Keisha Evans, who seems genuine in her determination to become as gloriously super-endowed as possible. Bless her heart!

    As a practical matter, having jumbo boobs may inhibit her ability to work or do housework if she’s a stay-at-home partner. If she works, she may be subjected to unwanted attention or the scorn of jealous female co-workers.

    My own wife has known I’m a boob-fan. Although she disapproves, she knew what she was getting. You made a mistake at the very beginning. Patching things up now may or may not be possible.

    For your own financial sake, hold off on what will be an expensive process until you’ve thoroughly hashed things out.

    If you DO go forward . . . how about some pics?

  3. Jack says:

    Hi Steve,

    I agree with Frank .. it sounds to me like you would still like your wife to have larger breasts, but are afraid to tell her. Debbie has picked up on this and must love you very much to suggest she get a boob job. The fact that she continues to want this after your comments, tells me she really may want this too.

    Also, you can not live your lives in fear of what might happen. So I sugegest you share your fears with your wife and judge from her reaction. I think you will be pleased.

    I agree with Sam – do tons of research. Cheap is not an option for something you will wear for the rest of your life. However, if your Debbie wants the surgeon “SCORE size me” then go ahead to replicate Morgan Leigh (a great choice).

    Sam is also right – expect Debbie to want to show off her new assests. So include cost of a whole new wardrobe, bras, lingerie, tops and dresses to show them off. Why not go ahead, and ask her to become a Score model ? This way, we are all winners 🙂

    Good luck !

  4. Samantha38g says:

    P.S. If I didn’t have such big boobs Naturally. I would have bought a pair myself.

    After all they are the ultimate female accessory. LOL

  5. Samantha38g says:

    Many of my gal pals who are not in porn got boob jobs after they were married. All of them still married. If that is his worry, then he sound just as insecure as she does for wanting them. So it all may balance out. LOL

    Jade, please post the link showing that study. Breast cancer can be harder to detect with implants, but does NOT cause it. Any good plastic surgeon will make a patient aware of all the complications that come from elective surgery.

    Honestly, he shouldn’t be asking us, but having deep discussions with his mate. She above all matters most. Her happiness is his happiness.

    Do suggest they see several doctors and do tons of research. Cheap is not an option for something you will wear for the rest of your life. Get a lifetime warrantee on the bags. Know many gals who’s bags have leaked & they had to pay for the replacement. So get the best and warrantees.

    Do be aware, you have been playing with natural titties and fake ones dont feel the same. I have read where men have missed the smaller but real ones. So it was the husband who had the regrets in the end. Guess that is where the better or worse part comes in.

    If she decides to get new boobs, she will have new toys to play with. Gals who are not exhibitionist suddenly flashing those new boobs to every person they know and dont know. LOL

    Then there is the cost of a whole new wardrobe, bras, lingerie, tops and dresses to show them off. Cause why spend all that money to hide them under sweatshirts.

    Yes, she will be getting alot of attention from men. Any woman who feels sexy & confident are found more attractive by men. She will stand taller with the new boobs sticking out. But that may just renew your lust for her too, having all those men eyeing her all the time. Then there comes the consequence of being sexually harrassed alot more.

    Good Luck,
    Sam

  6. Dennis says:

    I almost fell for this being a discussion about a wife whose husband says she wants bigger breasts.

    I don’t think she wants bigger breasts, I think she wants back the husband she had– the one who didn’t have a secret stash of Score magazines. The guy she has now was basically deceiving her if he was hiding part of his life. She may not know if she should even trust you anymore.

    Porn (for want of a better word) is a huge issue for a lot of women and I think your wife is one of those women. And let’s face facts– she didn’t know about your stash because you didn’t tell her about it before or after you got married. Big mistake.

    You need to realize that for her this isn’t about her breast size, it’s about why you’re still looking at other women when you’ve already got one you say you love. For a lot of people, marriage still means “Forsaking all others” and you’re probably not doing that in her eyes. Maybe you should start. Or admit to her that you never wanted to have that kind of marriage.

    Sorry if this sounds harsh. But the Score Group is built on a foundation of breasts. Most marriages aren’t. You’re asking for advice from a bunch of us who might be a little too fixated on breasts at the expense of seeing women in their totality. I understand why you’d come here for support. But I think you really did your wife wrong and she’s hurting and you need to step up and apologize and ask her what you can do to start to rebuild your marriage.

    That’s assuming an honest marriage is what you really want.

  7. Anthony says:

    fake boobs may look good (sometimes) they feel like shit!

  8. jdawg says:

    just say no to implants, otherwise you end up looking like a circus freak like, well, i can’t say who, i don’t wanna get poofed…

  9. Elliot James says:

    Jack, I doubt that would work. He’s a boob man and that’s not going to change. I think his wife would get even more anxious because then she’s going to really wonder why he’s showing her small-breasted girls out of nowhere when she knows he buys SCORE.

    I don’t know of any studies that look at the divorce rate among couples after the wife gets a breast enlargment. Probably none exist. I don’t know what could diminish Steve’s fear that she will leave if her boob job changes her personality and her new look attracts guys who’ll be hitting on her regardless of her being married. At some point he’s going to have to trust her 100% or they can just forget the idea of a boob job. Most of the couples in a similar situation that I know didn’t break up. Their relationship revved up because of it. I’m far from a marriage counselor but it seems like she’s into it and he’s very uncertain.

  10. FrankNZ says:

    To get back to S.P.’s question (thereby by-passing Jade’s bizarre tangent), reading between the lines, it sounds to me like you would still like your wife to have larger breasts, but may be afraid to tell her so.

    Having found out your penchant for large-breasted women, your wife may well feel that she needs to consider breast enlargement to please you. I would reassure her that she is fine as she is now, and her C-cup breasts are just perfect for her, and for you.

    I’d go for natural breasts any day, regardless of cup size. But who knows what nature may have in store for you. When I met my wife she was a lovely,firm D-cup, and over the ensuing 25 years has blossomed into a magnificent, pendulous G-cup. So I’d be all for letting nature have its way, and enjoy the changes that age will bring.

    And you may consider buying some men’s magazines or porn that celebrate C-cup women, and share them with her to reinforce how beautiful you find women of that size and shape. Perhaps you can persuade Elliot to send you a couple of issues of SCORE’s Naughty Neighbors and Newcummers. 😉

  11. Jade says:

    Sorry meant to write hot. Cooking dinner here.

  12. Jade says:

    Nope. I am natural 8J but I dnt like disrespecting women who arent as hit as me. I know alot of patients that have had breast cancer from implants. So thats where I got my info from. Maybe (cherry) ur the one who is getting defensive cause I dnt respect ppl who get naked for money.

  13. Cherry Brady says:

    Jade what the heck are you talking about? There’s no link between breast cancer and implants…. And it sounds like you’re the one who needs advice. To quote you:

    “U need to tell her she is 100 times hotter and more interesting than those women in the magazines.I see these fatsos that my bf jerks off over as just that, jack off paper. Just the same as toilet paper.”

    Sounds like someone ??… hmmm who could that be…??? is insecure in her relationship with her boyfriend. That was a very angry, mean spirited comment Jade.

  14. K.D. says:

    I don’t want to get into a pissing contest with Jade, but what I shared is my true life experience. Something that Steve may experience, that i actually have. All you offered was judgement, speculations and a little misinformation . My wife and I could not be happier, with her decision to have implants. My context was referring to wives not girlfriends. Also, like myself, I assume Steve is planning on being with his wife till death. So, I have to resectfully disagree with you as far as the selfish men comment, but I also respect your personal opinion.

  15. Jade says:

    Steve, you need to really keep telling her she is beautiful the way she is. Having implants is unhealthy an can cause breast cancer. How attractive would she be with no hair, no breasts and sick? Thats the reality. Dont listen to men who dont know her and are just giving selfish advice. Who knows..they could just be wanting to swoop in on her. ; P
    My bf likes fatter women. I am currently studying fitness and hope to be a nutrtitionist soon. So you can imagine MY reaction to his stupid request for me to put on 20 extra kgs!! F-off! was basically what my response was. I would be dead way b4 my time. No-one is worth that. NO-ONE!!!! Not for all the money or pleasure in the world. U need to tell her she is 100 times hotter and more interesting than those women in the magazines. I see these fatsos that my bf jerks off over as just that, jack off paper. Just the same as toilet paper. If this is even a true story an not something made up.

    • Dave says:

      Jade: I’m not sure where you got that from regarding implants/breast cancer. From the National Cancer Institute: “In one of the largest studies on the long-term health effects of silicone breast implants, researchers from the National Cancer Institute (NCI) in Bethesda, Md., found no association between breast implants and the subsequent risk of breast cancer.”

  16. Cherry Brady says:

    Okay SP, but don’t be that guy whose wife gets a boob job, then better-deals HIM because she has lots more positive attention from other men as a result of her newfound attention from men. I have seen that happen lots of times. The real question deals with the strength of your relationship with your wife. Her tits sound fine. A C-cup is a dream to many women, why alter them? Why change a perfectly good pair of tits? They are what they are, just like your dick and balls. Plus, she sounds like she is feeling inferior to other women with bigger breasts. If this is true, it’s possible she could resent you later for it because it sounds like she would be getting them to please you (no matter how much you re-assure her BTW). I know I sound like an advice columnist but this is just my take after having lived quite a full life around the antics of boobs.

  17. viggo says:

    It seems to me that she wants to get bigger boobs because she found out
    you likes big boobs. If she wants to get bigger boobs just to please you,
    that would indicate that she loves you. So you shouldn’t fear that she’ll
    leave you once she’s gotten bigger boobs.
    What you need to ask her is if she wants the boobjob because she want it, or if it’s because she thinks that you don’t like her the way she is now.

    Let’s turn the “problem” around. If you found her secret stash of big dick
    magazines, and you don’t measure up to her likings. Would you want
    to get a bigger dick because you’re afraid she’ll leave you if you don’t? Or because you want a bigger one?

  18. K.D. says:

    Steve, if your wife is willing to “go under the knife” for you, she obviously loves you and wants to make you happy. Also, she will likely get a boost in her self esteem. I know from personal experience my wife went from a C cup to a H cup, and she was hot before but she became exponentially hotter!! And she is planning on going bigger!! :-). So my advice is to let her do it, just make sure you do your research and find a great surgeon. Good Luck

  19. George says:

    While I prefer natural breasts, if she is willing to get the implants and she wants them on her own without any coaxing, I say let her get them.